Friday 26 October 2012

7 WAYS TO DESTRESS and CONNECT WITH YOURSELF IN JUST MINUTES



 
Often people share their experiences of socializing with friends, going to movies, reading, partying for relaxation but while these activities are more relaxing compared to the everyday routine, they do not impart deep, settled relaxation.

What I've come to believe, being disconnected with Nature, adrift floating from one moment to another is the root cause of disharmony and the stress our world faces today. I'd like to share some simple practices that help many to become a relaxed and a happy person.

1-BREATHING –My personal favorite technique to De stress ; we know that we are connected- through the process of respiration, we breathe in oxygen that the plants release and we breathe out carbon dioxide which plants breathe in. When we forget the breath we live in the subconscious and forget ourselves; when we remember the breath we remember how we are a part of the greater whole.

Try it out- take a deep inhalation, push it into your belly, let it rise into your chest and let out a long exhalation. You’ll be back in your present world and connected. Go within to your ‘personal retreat’ as often as you wish, anytime anywhere, lying down, sitting, just for 5 minutes to feel settled and connected.

3- Walking- Simply walk, with each step become aware of your feet touching the ground, feel the earth supporting you, feel your breath moving in and out with each stride.

4- Gardening- will connect you with rhythms of nature, its easy and fun besides you can grow some inspirational flowers and herbs.

5- Living and working environment- to feel happy and energized, room by room look for areas with clutter, darkness or poor view and make necessary changes to allow maximum positive healing energy to circulate through. 
Placing a mirror on the wall or painting of a landscape opens up the environment. Surround yourself with colours that suit your emotions, for instance red is associated with fire, green with trees and blue with sky.
Bring in some plants and hang a few wind chimes.

6- A Good Night Sleep with aromatic oils- scents trigger your system in a positive ways that help you relax. In a tbsp. of coconut oil, add 3 drops each of sandalwood, lavender, and rosemary essential oils and use them in a diffuser on your bedside for a restful sleep.

7- And Finally Music; sounds are directly linked to our nervous system therefore slow and soft sounds soothe and relax and decrease blood pressure, heart rate and respiration. How much you like the music is the best indication of how well it’ll make you relax.

Practice whatever from these suit you till it becomes second nature to you. I am certain you'll enjoy every bit of it.

ARE YOU STRESSED, STRAINED AND FATIGUED?



     IS YOUR MODERN LIFESTYLE PUSHING THE LIMITS OF YOUR WELL-BEING?


Stress is a potent trigger that modern world encounters, though each one’s response to what one perceives as stressful may be unique.

Did you know that situations or stimuli that trigger a stress response are called stressors? What are yours?

CATACLYSMIC- disasters such as earthquakes, fires, tornedoes.

BACKGROUND STRESSORS- of a repetitive, routine nature like blaring music, constant background noise, barking dog, traffic jams, high-pressure careers.

PERSONAL STRESSORS-
a-    Chronic pain and illness
b-    Emotional ‘empty nest syndrome’, divorce, death of a loved one
c-     Intellectual- facing exams, facing a problem that requires sharp rational thinking
d-    Social stressors- undue pressures of  co-workers, family, friends

Whether mild or severe, if continued over a long period of time, stress can become chronic and create organic imbalance, lead to depression and serious illness.

Lack of concentration, fatigue, irritability, frequent headaches, insomnia bad dreams, shortness of breath, pounding heart, neck or lower back pain, anxiety, moodiness are some of the signs of CHRONIC STRESS.

You'll need to change your attitude towards life if you wish to enhance your stress coping skills.

Some suggestions







Believe you are in control of your destiny
Stop blaming yourself
Breakdown an overwhelming situation into smaller manageable pieces
 Express your emotions  without hostility and anger
Be flexible and try not to control each and every situation
Choose your arguments and fights carefully and determine what is worth the stress
Focus on the good
Adopt  spiritual optimism

You can not be burdened and yet look and feel beautiful; read my next article on ways of 
relaxing in just minutes.